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To Sir With Love

Sunday, July 18th, 2010 by mfn

‘To Sir, with Love’, the iconic song from the film with the same name, as sung by Lulu to Sidney Poitier has always given me goose bumps. The words are both masterful and poignant.

Although, one of the best thing about this song is that it never dates. While in it’s original context it was written about a school girl and her gratitude to her teacher, the truth is that we never stop learning and or having people in our lives that help us to grow and develop. As such, this song may be just as meaningful to someone who is of a mature age as to someone fresh out of school. And for that, the song writers Don Black and Mark London should be immensely proud.

To Sir, with Love

Those schoolgirl days, of telling tales and biting nails are gone,

But in my mind,

I know they will still live on and on,

But how do you thank someone, who has taken you from crayons to perfume?

It isn’t easy, but I’ll try,

If you wanted the sky I would write across the sky in letters,

That would soar a thousand feet high,

To Sir, with Love

The time has come,

For closing books and long last looks must end,

And as I leave,

I know that I am leaving my best friend,

A friend who taught me right from wrong,

And weak from strong,

That’s a lot to learn,

What, what can I give you in return?

If you wanted the moon I would try to make a start,

But I, would rather you let me give my heart,

To Sir, with Love

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Wedding thank you notes – a must!

Thursday, July 8th, 2010 by mfn

I was reading the latest edition of Wedding Style Guide and came across a superb article about thank you notes and thought it was only fitting that I share it. (If you haven’t come across this magazine I urge you to seek it out! It has great articles, styling tips and theming ideas, which can be used for your big day or adapted for any occasion of your choice. They also have a great website - weddingstyleguide.com.au )

The article in question was titled ‘Thanks, but no thanks’ and went on to advise that it is essential to write thank you notes to everyone who has helped to make your special day such a success.

Here are the key points from the article:

- Presents delivered to the bride before the wedding must have a thank you note sent, from the bride, on behalf of herself and her fiancé before the wedding

- With presents that are delivered with a registry service or taken to the wedding, the bride and groom have three months to send their thank you notes

- For ease, make a list of who gave you each present and what it is

- The thank you note must be handwritten

- Stationery can vary - but it should be stylish and good quality

- Make the letter personal and heartfelt

- Ensure you express your gratitude for the present and offer a description of how it might be used

However if you can, I would recommend getting a copy of this article, as it is the best one that I have read on this subject matter.

And much to my delight, monogrammed note cards, much like the French Navy ones shown below were used on the example thank you notes, which clearly made me very happy!

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